“MY WIFE RIPS MY CLOTHES, HITS ME, AND LOCKS ME IN A ROOM”: CHALLENGES AND COPING STRATEGIES OF MALE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN IBADAN

Abstract

As the statistical spotlight exposes the endangerment of the female gender due to domestic violence, it has simultaneously signaled a threat that is steadily bedeviling the male gender. Therefore, this study investigated the challenges and coping strategies of male victims in Ibadan using the Gender Symmetry Theory to guide explanation of the phenomenon. After collecting and analyzing data throughthe qualitative method, it was discovered that various challenges were encountered by male victims of domestic violence, which included verbal and physical assault, spousal infidelity, and sexual deprivation amongst others. There was the use of formal and informal coping mechanisms such as taking legal steps, alcohol abuse, and anti-social behaviours amongst others by victims to survive the incessant domestic victimization from spouse. The study, however, recommended increased education and awareness against domestic violence while well-equipped and functional support systems be provided to cater for the needs of male victims of domestic violence.

Keywords: Domestic violence, victimization, male victims, female perpetrators, Gender Symmetry Theory